Plugged.

Let me get right to it;

i always get asked by the most random people what is it that i do here in atlanta. I’ll tell you what i don’t do…

I do not work for free; ok goodnight… lol [in real life]

Just a synopsis of what it is I do all day – 

ok, so picture this 30 year old human whom has a pretty decent mind with pretty decent goals and just recently decided that they wanted to get serious about life. They decide that in the near future they want to be able to make life decisions and have their finances be ready as well. [however] they don’t know who they need to speak to, what they should do, when they should do it or how for that matter!

Here’s where i come in…

i sit down for about 20 good minutes on the phone or in person [as long as its a good hair day] and I have them tell me their goals just as they did their friends and parents, right. After those 20 good minutes i map out what they will need to do to accomplish these goals – but not only do i map this process out, i assist them in accomplishing this [and] in maintaining their new and improved life, that i let them take all the credit for changing [inserts emoji face].

So in laymens terms, I assist individuals with most things finance:

Obtaining Funding. Personal & Business Loans. Credit Restoration. Credit Building. Business Planning. Business Setup. Bookkeeping. Accounting.

[and a slew of other things that can save a life]

Seguing —

I would have never known the importance of making wise financial decisions and planning ahead financially had it not been for me wanting to get serious about life. so ‘what is it that i do?’ – i help those who are trying to transition and better themselves financially.

Take it from me; you are not going to want to be 40 when you finally decide you want to buy a house with a 30 yr mortgage. Let’s face it, we all won’t become millionaires and buy our houses outright; most of us will be regular people waking up to a different kind of grind.

Words of Wisdom: Education yourself when it comes to finances. Understand how your decisions can effect your future. Know where you stand in life. Acknowledge your true status. Think beyond today - be a Big Picture Thinker!

[Then] speak with me.

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The Pressure

There was a time that I couldn’t find a piece of mind

Stretching every piece of my mind, to what required a piece of my attention

Losing retention; the irony in that.

Taking in so much that I’d forget this and that.

I blamed it on the pressure

My stressors; my many responsibilities.

The rent due, lights, cable, car.. it was killing me.

No literally killing me;

Insomnia kicking in, no sleep — i had no energy.

The pressure, thinking about all the pressure.

Caught a flat tire, gotta get another one; that’s another stressor.

Money flowing in, love flowing out;

Prioritizing the things I can live without.

Just a whole lot of random pressures……

—- [Insert your many pressures in life]

I’m thankful for the pressure

Long nights, early mornings and Starbucks.

I had a random thought, and it translated like a poem actually. My recent pressures have put me in a position lately to choose, to prioritize. It was the worst-best thing that could’ve happened for me. I will admit that I’ve never been the type to force myself to choose if I could find a way to have it all. SO imagine my ignorance to making “this or that” choices. It was all bad… until it wasn’t.

Somehow I managed to make a choice and be good with that choice no matter what. I’ve excelled tremendously in the way that I react to things. Over the past however long, I’ve been really digging in with getting to know the things I like and don’t like. The things I’ll entertain and what just doesn’t work for me. The things that matter and those things that are merely around to provide commercials when you’re tired of dealing with the real things in life.

So yeah, I’m thankful for the pressure. I can say it played a catalyst in the person that I’m becoming. Feeling that pressure taught me that I had to work harder than I ever thought I’d have to work. It taught me to be honest with myself and others. To prioritize. To grind. To turn water into wine.

I feel that one whom has never had a moment when the pressure is on, 3 seconds til the buzzer, with the game winning three point jumper on you… they just won’t understand where the real grind originates from.

Words of Wisdom: Don’t be afraid of that added pressure. You’ll either get through it a conqueror or a loser; you choose. 

Step 7: Self-Evaluation

This step might just be one of my favorites. It involves expression. For me, it involved music, but that might not apply to everyone. I’ll explain later.

This step is a self-evaluating point. At this point in your relationship, you are most likely still liking most of everything about them. There should still be all smiles of course. We’ve focused a lot on testing ‘them’ and making sure that ‘they’ are paying attention, and answering questions correctly. We’ve subtly added the pressure to the prospects and it’s about time to even that pressure out.

Let’s Start:

How many of you have ever sat back and evaluated why your past relationships didn’t work out? How many of you actually found a flaw in yourself that might’ve helped to end that relationship? How many of us are playing the blame game? Well, all of the above ends today. After this sentence. [Deep Breath]

Get out your pen and paper. Open up a new word document and let’s start. As always we need to be completely honest with ourselves.

You are to first jot down all YOUR flaws within the relationship. For example, if you were insecure, if you argued a lot, if you did not trust that person. Then write down the reasons you felt you were this way. For example, they cheated on you; you never had real love so you were insecure and afraid to lose it. The point of this is NOT to bring forth what they did to you, only what you did. See it matters NOT how they treated you. I’ll tell you why, we all know how we’d LIKE to be treated. Case & point. If we can bring up all the wrong they’ve done, then we know what we don’t want from the next person. Get me? This is the basic step of acknowledging our own flaws.

In the midst of which, I want you to turn your list into a letter to yourself. Write a letter to yourself addressing what you’ve acknowledged, why, and how you intend on fixing it. By the end of the letter you should shift to how you’ll make sure not to make the same poor choices with your new prospect. In saying, this letter should be positive. Even though the flaws might not be, the outcome should be. I’ll post an excerpt of my personal letter to myself to give you an idea of how it should be formatted. Of course however, write it however you’d like. Use this letter as a reference. Don’t write it, and then throw it away. Write it and hang it up somewhere to remind yourself that you are NOT perfect and that in any relationship, although perfect is what we may strive for, that’s not what we get. That you yourself have things that you need to work on.  

In Part Two of Step 7 I’ll explain what I meant about the involvement of music… Hold your horses && write the letter ^_^.

I hope this step brings forth some serious self-evaluation. Also, as always hoping that you enjoy this step.

Furthermore my dear followers, Be Blessed. 

Step 4: To You, From Me.

This is the wrap up of month one. I know everyone hasn’t been talking to their prospect for a month, or ONLY a month, but THIS is the wrap up evaluation.

Get to an area of solitude. For a moment I want you to pretend like the person you confide in is at a great distance & you must write them a letter as your only form of communication. I want you to write them talking about nothing but your prospect.

I’ll post my letter address to my BFF to give you a hint of how it’s suppose to go. My letter however is old, being that I’ve already done these steps.

You should be completely honest with yourself as well as your friends in this letter. You are not actually permitted to give this letter to anyone, UNLESS of course you’d like to.

I would personally be interested in reading some of your letters.

THE POINT: I’m a visual person. I’ve found that its a good idea to see things in print versus saying them. You can use this letter as a future reference. IF perhaps your partner grows in the future you can see how far they’ve come. IF they get worse you will be able to see where you started out in a sense.

Its encouraged that you HANDWRITE this letter for your personal files, however typing isn’t totally discouraged. Hang the letter up, use it as a bookmark, or if you send it off.. see if perhaps your BFF is as excited to read the letter. Perhaps see the feedback you get.

With that being said…

READY»» SET»»> WRITE!!!