You’re Hired.

Relationships are like heading up the ultimate corporation. Picking the right mate could be the difference between a mom and pop diner && Ruth’s Chris.. Its quite simple, if you would NOT give your partner a high position in your business then you shouldn’t even consider giving them a high position in your LIFE… Also as with any job you shouldn’t have to dread having it or feel like its the only thing you can get right now.. Are you following my metaphor?? 

Many times we as people practice patience at the wrong times. In actuality its the beginning of what we know as settling. Engraving the thought in ones mind that they’ll soon be ready, but soon is never soon enough. 

I feel… that people with standards think they’re too high. But I must say that having high standards and having reasonable standards are two different things. For instance, a high standard would be wanting a successful man with most of his life in line with no baggage or kids. That’s HIGH, but its feasible. An unreasonable standard would be ONLY wanting a superstar.. an athlete.. its possible, as most things in life are, BUT its a slim chance to any that you can go grocery shopping and find one. 

Words of Wisdom: Do some self evaluating. YOU shall do well to know your worth and never be afraid of standards. It what will make your relationship unique. Its what will make your spouse a good spouse for you. Perfect even.

Hardest Thing About Life…

Some may feel the hardest thing about life is living it, surviving it.. even about the choices that one may make. I feel that the hardest thing about life is appreciating it. When life’s burdens present themselves, when everything that can go wrong.. GOES WRONG.. its hard to yet appreciate the fact that you even had the opportunity to be here to live it. Its difficult to see that once the storm clears that there is a major lesson you’ll learn. That really you’re lucky to have went through it. 

Words of Wisdom: Next time you feel that your life is taking a turbulent turn.. Smile and know that our hardest hour last just as long as our happiest… 60 minutes. It’ll be happy times soon enough. Rest assure.

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Any further questions of course can be asked and will be answered…

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Dear Future Followers…

I’d firstly like to thank you for following me. I encourage you to ask me what questions ail your mind. Whether it be a need for advice, opinion or a simple nudge in the right direction. While I admit I am no expert, who is when it comes to the matters of the heart, love and relationships. Those are ongoing subjects that can only be dealt with as they come. No book, article, song, or person can tell you the exact steps to take when dealing with individuals. My sole purpose is to HELP you and GUIDE you to where you need to be. I CAN do that.

If in doubt.. try me out. Anon if need be. I’m here for all that feel they have no outlet. Helping is my passion, my forte. I’d love to assist. 

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