With this next step here, I urge you NOT to confuse the fact that I do NOT condone lying [other than this one time]. It MIGHT not even calls for a lie, however it MIGHT.
With that being said, It’s a known fact that life will throw curb balls at you when you least expect it. Usually we turn to our really close family members, or that best friend that has your whole life encoded in their brain. THIS time, we are going to confide in our prospects. Not because our other friends are not there, but as stated it’s a test.
Your significant other should not only be your romantic partner, but should be able to play the role of your best friend when they need to, of course with the given fact that some things are better talked about with our circle of besties. Again, this is JUST a test.
Today’s step is simple. It might require some prepping so that is why I’ve posted this earlier than expected. ALL you have to do is share a SMALL… TINY dilemma with your prospect. I mean it when I say small and tiny. Small and tiny being something like: You just took a big test at school [if enrolled], but don’t know if you passed it, you’re stressed out.
See how simple that was.
PLEASE DO NOT TRY AND OVERDO YOUR STORY AND TELL SOME VERY DRAMATIC FAMILY TRAGIC STORY TO SEE IF THEY WILL CATER TO YOUR EVERY NEED AND BABY YOU. PLEASE DO NOT DO THAT. THE STORY SHOULD BE SIMPLE TO TELL AND SIMPLE TO FORGET. IT SHOULD HAVE NO EFFECT IN THE FUTURE. IF YOU ARE A BAD LIAR… ITS ENCOURAGED THAT PERHAPS YOU SIT THIS STEP OUT. [[OR]] SIMPLY BRING UP AN OLD PROBLEM THAT IS ALREADY SOLVED AND SEE HOW THEY REACT.
The POINT: Basically you want to see how he will handle your stress with you when it comes to something important. Even though everyone’s prospect might not react the same or expected way, some sort of reaction IS required. Whether it’s a simple pat on the back to say you’ll do just fine. Whether it’s them testing you on some questions and studying with you on a future exam [If you used the test one as you story]. There is also a possibility that you won’t see the results until your next problem. Meaning when you have another test per say, he/she might offer to study with you because of the last one you weren’t confident with. If you don’t want to make up a story to tell, then there is nothing wrong with simply questioning what their reaction would be given a situation. Only thing with that approach is, there is a “grand” answer, then there is the “truth”. I myself prefer raw reactions. So I prefer people to show me and not so much tell me. To each its own though.
Don’t get too hasty if you don’t receive that nice smothering attention that you feel you should receive.
The “problem” that you make up is TOTALLY up to you. Again this Step is totally optional. IF you feel that your guy/gal is a concerned individual and needs no testing than I can appreciate your judge of character. You might have picked a good one. If perhaps you feel that you’re not quite sure.. feel free to participate.
This step being so simple should not require TOO much time to produce results and Step 6 will be posted soon.