Plugged.

Let me get right to it;

i always get asked by the most random people what is it that i do here in atlanta. I’ll tell you what i don’t do…

I do not work for free; ok goodnight… lol [in real life]

Just a synopsis of what it is I do all day – 

ok, so picture this 30 year old human whom has a pretty decent mind with pretty decent goals and just recently decided that they wanted to get serious about life. They decide that in the near future they want to be able to make life decisions and have their finances be ready as well. [however] they don’t know who they need to speak to, what they should do, when they should do it or how for that matter!

Here’s where i come in…

i sit down for about 20 good minutes on the phone or in person [as long as its a good hair day] and I have them tell me their goals just as they did their friends and parents, right. After those 20 good minutes i map out what they will need to do to accomplish these goals – but not only do i map this process out, i assist them in accomplishing this [and] in maintaining their new and improved life, that i let them take all the credit for changing [inserts emoji face].

So in laymens terms, I assist individuals with most things finance:

Obtaining Funding. Personal & Business Loans. Credit Restoration. Credit Building. Business Planning. Business Setup. Bookkeeping. Accounting.

[and a slew of other things that can save a life]

Seguing —

I would have never known the importance of making wise financial decisions and planning ahead financially had it not been for me wanting to get serious about life. so ‘what is it that i do?’ – i help those who are trying to transition and better themselves financially.

Take it from me; you are not going to want to be 40 when you finally decide you want to buy a house with a 30 yr mortgage. Let’s face it, we all won’t become millionaires and buy our houses outright; most of us will be regular people waking up to a different kind of grind.

Words of Wisdom: Education yourself when it comes to finances. Understand how your decisions can effect your future. Know where you stand in life. Acknowledge your true status. Think beyond today - be a Big Picture Thinker!

[Then] speak with me.

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The Pressure

There was a time that I couldn’t find a piece of mind

Stretching every piece of my mind, to what required a piece of my attention

Losing retention; the irony in that.

Taking in so much that I’d forget this and that.

I blamed it on the pressure

My stressors; my many responsibilities.

The rent due, lights, cable, car.. it was killing me.

No literally killing me;

Insomnia kicking in, no sleep — i had no energy.

The pressure, thinking about all the pressure.

Caught a flat tire, gotta get another one; that’s another stressor.

Money flowing in, love flowing out;

Prioritizing the things I can live without.

Just a whole lot of random pressures……

—- [Insert your many pressures in life]

I’m thankful for the pressure

Long nights, early mornings and Starbucks.

I had a random thought, and it translated like a poem actually. My recent pressures have put me in a position lately to choose, to prioritize. It was the worst-best thing that could’ve happened for me. I will admit that I’ve never been the type to force myself to choose if I could find a way to have it all. SO imagine my ignorance to making “this or that” choices. It was all bad… until it wasn’t.

Somehow I managed to make a choice and be good with that choice no matter what. I’ve excelled tremendously in the way that I react to things. Over the past however long, I’ve been really digging in with getting to know the things I like and don’t like. The things I’ll entertain and what just doesn’t work for me. The things that matter and those things that are merely around to provide commercials when you’re tired of dealing with the real things in life.

So yeah, I’m thankful for the pressure. I can say it played a catalyst in the person that I’m becoming. Feeling that pressure taught me that I had to work harder than I ever thought I’d have to work. It taught me to be honest with myself and others. To prioritize. To grind. To turn water into wine.

I feel that one whom has never had a moment when the pressure is on, 3 seconds til the buzzer, with the game winning three point jumper on you… they just won’t understand where the real grind originates from.

Words of Wisdom: Don’t be afraid of that added pressure. You’ll either get through it a conqueror or a loser; you choose. 

Everyone Knows What Sex is Right??

Everyone knows what sex is right?

Its that physical interaction between two people that allow pleasure and pain to collide into a scene of satisfaction with a bit of emotion thrown off it there… right?

As I agree with my above off the noggin definition.. I, however think there is a totally different definition that you can’t find in Webster. You actually won’t even know the definition if you don’t experience it… I feel.

See in my mind sex isn’t just a physical interaction, as I’m sure some would agree with me. Sex is power. I know I know.. calm down, I’m going to explain.

Sex Is Power.

For whatever reason, I’ve observed and experienced that relationships end THAT much worse once you’ve added sex into the equation. For whatever reason, sex brings a sense of entitlement like “I gave you a part of me, at LEAST give me a part of you.. you owe me that much”. Ladies hate when their body count goes up. Guys don’t too much mind (sorry if I misjudged any guy that does). I feel that society glorifies sex, so in the instance where it’s done in a loose manner it’s made a big deal of. I feel that subconsciously, we all know that sex is power. It reminds me of the N-word. Everyone knows the connotation behind it. Everyone knows how far to go with it. In the instant that it’s used loosely or by the wrong person.. it’s shunned upon.

Keep Your Power.

Imagine being Spider Man and not knowing how to shoot the web; Being Superman and not knowing how to fly. We’re not jumping off any ledges any time soon… Maybe a dresser or two, but no big buildings. Treat sex the same way. Until you realize the power that you have, don’t be so hasty to utilize it or indulge in something.

Sex is not just a physical act. It’s not reluctance. It’s not confusing or misleading. It’s not a way to get what you want. It’s not indecisive. It won’t make anyone stay any longer (at least not for the right reasons).

Sex is understanding. Sex is mutual. Sex is mature. Sex is a form of communication. Sex is a language. Sex is religion. Sex is a story. Sex is passion. Sex is a choice.

It’s many things. But above all in my shared opinion.

Sex is Power.

Words of Wisdom: My words of wisdom are simple; There are NO consequences to NOT having sex with someone… 

I definitely hope my sweet young lady who sent me the inbox reads this… I hope that in the future you come across someone whom you are not reluctant to sharing your power with… –Guru

Furthermore, Be Blessed.

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What Did You Do Today? **TRY THIS**

Interesting thoughts that I’m having tonight. Recently, I’ve been very anxious about my time management. A friend of mine posted a short story on Facebook about a really famous guy that no one noticed, but the people that weren’t in a hurry [lightly speaking]…

Makes me wonder if one could really, truly account for their whole day. 

**Try This**

All you will need is a pen, and piece of paper and some organization. Down the side of your paper list the times. START with midnight, NOT the time you wake up.

12am

1am

2am

3am

So on and so forth. ALL the way to midnight again. 

In the morning OR on that previous night jot down the things that you NEED to do, or want to do during the times. Then>> throughout the day jot down what you actually DO during the times. Next to the things that you did NOT do according to your plan, explain to yourself why, or determine whether what you did was more important than what you wanted or was suppose to do.

Yes, I did this exercise myself and that is how I found out that I spent my time pretty loosely outside of working and writing. Currently, I take pride in every minute of my day, in an attempt not to become to anal about it. I’ll just say that I DO take it more seriously. I strive to be more productive. I think of ways to save time. Very tedious ways to save time. {Things people wouldn’t think of}:

• When I have to be somewhere, I leave early to avoid traffic, but I also complete something else that needs to be done. For instance: If I have a meeting to go to at 5 and I know traffic is going to be hectic, I leave maybe 1 or 1.5 hours early to stop for gas, or food, or complete an errand. So that way when my meeting is over, I don’t have much else to do.

WELP! My dear readers, I DO hope that you do this exercise and get something out of it. If at all any questions are prompted or you’d just like to share your experience with this, don’t hesitate to write me ^_^

See you in my inbox!

Step 1: Meet & Greet

Step one is fairly simple.. Meet & Greet.

For those of you who already have a prospect in mind.. MAKE SURE he/she is who you’d like to pursue. 

For those of you who are still single, approach that person whom you seek.

IF you are single by definition, but have potential prospects [ppl who txt/call you whom you have slight feelings for]… pick one. Narrow down those choices. 

** This may only work if you pick ONE.. No Plan B’s.. NO “Just In Case-Sideline Boo’s”** 

&& For those of you who simply have a relationship and maybe want to “renew” it up in a sense to see if maybe you’ve picked the right one… You TOO may follow along… This is for everyone. 

THE POINT: Step 1 is merely so that YOU may assess who you really like. It makes no sense to want a relationship, but have 4 and 5 people who you are deciding between. Love and  life are about the risk we take. Sacrifice the limbo relationships for a potential successful one. Ignore the feeling of failure just in case you choose the wrong person. IF when you choose that person you feel like you have chosen the wrong person… its quite simple… You’ve chosen the wrong person. Go with your gut.

I know step one is fairly simple… But this is the toughest part. Making sure the route you choose is the right one. Feedback is encouraged on the thought process of maybe how you chose the one you’ve chosen…

Stay Tuned For Step 2…

Be blessed in the meantime..