Opinions Don’t Matter.

If you’re a quick thinker like myself, I’m sure you have much to say about most of everything. I’m SURE you have an opinion on everything that is anything.

Opinion: a viewpoint on a subject matter, not necessarily solicited or asked nor based on fact.

With that being said, stop giving your opinions… Goodbye 🙂

No, let me rephrase.. wait until you are asked for your thoughts/opinions to give them. If I may give you a fact for the day it is, “Your opinion matters not until someone asks you for it”.

EVEN in the moments where you’re opinion holds merit. You know those moments when your good friend is in a funk about a boyfriend that in your opinion is no good for her anyways. Yea, that moment. Hold your tongue. Did she ask? No? Probably because she doesn’t need it.

I feel that the important thing to remember when it comes to opinions and that although they are accepted when unsolicited, people prefer facts. People prefer listeners most times anyways. I’ve observed that people that have plenty of opinions, are people that feel that they are clued into the world a whole lot keener than the next.

But Guru don’t you give your opinions on topics?

I sure do, but I don’t impose my thoughts. One is to click free-will on my site and indulge in my way of thinking. I don’t tag people or tag fact to my way of thinking.

My thoughts don’t matter until they’ve touched one of my readers. I get that.

Words of Wisdom: The next time before you give your opinion, do everyone a small favor and ask the simple question, “do you want my opinion on (xyz)”. It’ll save people a lot of time. Wait for that friend to ask you how that outfit looks. Wait for that person to ask you what you think about her romance situation. WAIT. I know there are times when people need to that light shined on them and they NEED to know certain things. That’s not opinion. That’s concern. Its all about delivery sometimes. ((Whole other topic))

Furthermore more my beloved readers, Be Blessed.

 

Everyone Knows What Sex is Right??

Everyone knows what sex is right?

Its that physical interaction between two people that allow pleasure and pain to collide into a scene of satisfaction with a bit of emotion thrown off it there… right?

As I agree with my above off the noggin definition.. I, however think there is a totally different definition that you can’t find in Webster. You actually won’t even know the definition if you don’t experience it… I feel.

See in my mind sex isn’t just a physical interaction, as I’m sure some would agree with me. Sex is power. I know I know.. calm down, I’m going to explain.

Sex Is Power.

For whatever reason, I’ve observed and experienced that relationships end THAT much worse once you’ve added sex into the equation. For whatever reason, sex brings a sense of entitlement like “I gave you a part of me, at LEAST give me a part of you.. you owe me that much”. Ladies hate when their body count goes up. Guys don’t too much mind (sorry if I misjudged any guy that does). I feel that society glorifies sex, so in the instance where it’s done in a loose manner it’s made a big deal of. I feel that subconsciously, we all know that sex is power. It reminds me of the N-word. Everyone knows the connotation behind it. Everyone knows how far to go with it. In the instant that it’s used loosely or by the wrong person.. it’s shunned upon.

Keep Your Power.

Imagine being Spider Man and not knowing how to shoot the web; Being Superman and not knowing how to fly. We’re not jumping off any ledges any time soon… Maybe a dresser or two, but no big buildings. Treat sex the same way. Until you realize the power that you have, don’t be so hasty to utilize it or indulge in something.

Sex is not just a physical act. It’s not reluctance. It’s not confusing or misleading. It’s not a way to get what you want. It’s not indecisive. It won’t make anyone stay any longer (at least not for the right reasons).

Sex is understanding. Sex is mutual. Sex is mature. Sex is a form of communication. Sex is a language. Sex is religion. Sex is a story. Sex is passion. Sex is a choice.

It’s many things. But above all in my shared opinion.

Sex is Power.

Words of Wisdom: My words of wisdom are simple; There are NO consequences to NOT having sex with someone… 

I definitely hope my sweet young lady who sent me the inbox reads this… I hope that in the future you come across someone whom you are not reluctant to sharing your power with… –Guru

Furthermore, Be Blessed.

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Speechless

I’ve been incognito for a moment as I have been searching for a certain source of inspiration.

Make no mistake I always have thoughts and topics that I could potentially bring about and spark up a post; I’ll be honest, I’d only be rambling.

I Journal.

There are times when verbally expressing myself doesn’t suffice. My motto has always been, “It’s not official until you can sign your name under it”. I prefer to write down my thoughts. Most nights I write pages worth of unorganized poetry and I’ll go back and read them days later. When I say unorganized poetry, I mean scribble scrabble, quotes, and random thoughts that just mean so much to me at the time.

I Think.

If there is one thing I’ve learned, as simple as it is… Think before you speak… I bet you never heard a saying that says “think before you write” though.

 

The point of this late entry is to simple encourage one to not be reluctant to writing down their thoughts. Even if it’s a small thought, a quote that someone said that just stuck with you… there are times when words aren’t enough. There are times when we just can’t find the right words to articulate our thoughts. Don’t worry about ramblings and not making sense. Don’t worry about writing it neatly and formatted. Doesn’t have to be paragraph form. Just WRITE! 

For the past few weeks, I’ve been speechless…

Not thoughtless though, I’ve been writing.

Words of Wisdom: Write It Down.. What you may not understand now, you may go back and read it later and have a better understanding of how you feeling at that point in time. Buy a journal and write it down. 

Furthermore, Be Blessed.